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Here is a question for everyone? a married man. My wife and I are have an open/poly relationship. very upfront about it (as my heading suggests) I figure it is best to be honest always, and this is no different. We also have four that live at home. My wife has two partners her self, and she LARP's. I work a job where essentially alone all day everyday from 9:30 to 6. So meeting people at work is not really an option. With my wife being gone half of most weekends in a month (some more) with the . This leaves little time to go "out and about" to meet people. All of these reasons have left me to resort to the online scene. Now I've tried many different sites, and apps, this one being the latest. I've had no success with any of them so far. I would describe myself as a decent enough looking individual, intelligent, pretty fun to hang out with, normal fun type person lol. What looking for is essential a friend or friends. I want someone to talk to, chat with, hang out with on occasion, have a good time with etc. If it turns into a with benefits things great. If it turns into a partnership outstanding. Don't get me wrong, not opposed to having sex with someone right away if there is an attraction or what not. I just prefer to get to know the person a little and have a mutual understanding of life. Sex can be so much more when there is that connection. My question is I going about it all wrong? Does the word open make woman think I just want a quick no strings sex and move on? Should I wait to mention married? Not wear my ring when I go out? These are questions that plague . If I get the chance to talk to someone, and explain the situation I think it may be easier to accept then just reading open/poly. I also understand that not everyone is into that lifestyle. But there are enough out there, that I shouldn't be completely ignored. I don't know. What do you think? |
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7/11/2018 9:07 am |
Welcome to all your comments and suggestions here...Cannot hurt my feeling lol
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Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy..
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You know it's good not to rush here on the site take your time and get to know members and see where it goes. Over the years I have found the best way to get to know someone is watching them chat in the chat rooms, as I feel their true colors are exposed.
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I agree with Bifun, honesty is always the best policy. I think you both know exactly what you are looking for, I know from with chatting with you, you are a great guy, and anyone will be lucky to have you as a friend or more. Be patient my love, you will find someone Please Visit My Blog MAMACITA38DD
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some women typically avoid married men...so don't get discouraged... i prefer married, because i am just looking for a fuck buddy or two, so it doesn't matter to me, in fact, married men are even better, because they don't get attached to me, too much...but again, i don't do much hang around and dating scene, either.. i don't judge anyone, every one has their own situations...just take your time, don't rush and keep on looking, i am pretty sure, you will find a close fit... good luck...
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7/11/2018 10:35 am |
Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy..
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7/11/2018 10:38 am |
You know it's good not to rush here on the site take your time and get to know members and see where it goes. Over the years I have found the best way to get to know someone is watching them chat in the chat rooms, as I feel their true colors are exposed.
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7/11/2018 10:42 am |
I agree with Bifun, honesty is always the best policy. I think you both know exactly what you are looking for, I know from with chatting with you, you are a great guy, and anyone will be lucky to have you as a friend or more. Be patient my love, you will find someone
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7/11/2018 10:47 am |
some women typically avoid married men...so don't get discouraged... i prefer married, because i am just looking for a fuck buddy or two, so it doesn't matter to me, in fact, married men are even better, because they don't get attached to me, too much...but again, i don't do much hang around and dating scene, either.. i don't judge anyone, every one has their own situations...just take your time, don't rush and keep on looking, i am pretty sure, you will find a close fit... good luck...
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Honesty is great. Really. It filters out the bullshitters. Some people might not be able to handle it, but it's also these people that you really don't wanna waste your time with. This is really refreshing. Good luck!
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7/11/2018 1:28 pm |
Honesty is great. Really. It filters out the bullshitters. Some people might not be able to handle it, but it's also these people that you really don't wanna waste your time with. This is really refreshing. Good luck!
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This leaves little time to go "out and about" to meet people. ... ....Yes, those days are pretty much over with when you got married and fertilized her eggs. intelligent, ... The jury is out on that one. What I'm looking for is essential a friend or friends. I want someone to talk to, chat with, hang out with on occasion, have a good time with etc.... Okay , at this point most anyone is wondering just what is so wrong with you, that you can't hangout with any neighbor buddies. ....or really , are you just looking for that "Etc"...some available pussy? If it turns into a partnership outstanding. ... Why are you gonna go gay? I just prefer to get to know the person a little and have a mutual understanding of life. .... Oh bs, you want some pussy. You don't need a mutual understanding of life to bang her snatch. Even a 18 year old woman knows that much. Sex can be so much more when there is that connection. ... No, really you want some strange to knock out a few loads when you feel the need. My question is am I going about it all wrong? ... Yes. Does the word open make woman think I just want a quick no strings sex and move on? .... No... makes women think , "Why did this fool get married". Anyway, there's nothing wrong with nsa and moving on. Should I wait to mention I'm married? ... No, if you're going to tell them at all, that's what you start with......or don't even mention you're married, if you're going to hit-it-and-quit-it. Not wear my ring when I go out? ... No....Do wear your ring... this way you attract the right women. You seriously don't need any women who are all upset about you being married and on the prowl. These are questions that plague me. ... The question that should be plaguing you is, "What the fuck did I get married for". Actually you're lucky enough, because some guys on here are plagued by the question , why did I get the trans-op surgery. It doesn't grow back like a lizards tail. I also understand that not everyone is into that lifestyle. ... Oh it's not really a "Life style"..... it's more of a group of millions who didn't need to get married, and really should not have gotten married, in the first place. What do you think? ... I think you got married too young and now you're wishing you stayed single.
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7/11/2018 3:57 pm |
This leaves little time to go "out and about" to meet people. ... ....Yes, those days are pretty much over with when you got married and fertilized her eggs. intelligent, ... The jury is out on that one. What I'm looking for is essential a friend or friends. I want someone to talk to, chat with, hang out with on occasion, have a good time with etc.... Okay , at this point most anyone is wondering just what is so wrong with you, that you can't hangout with any neighbor buddies. ....or really , are you just looking for that "Etc"...some available pussy? If it turns into a partnership outstanding. ... Why are you gonna go gay? I just prefer to get to know the person a little and have a mutual understanding of life. .... Oh bs, you want some pussy. You don't need a mutual understanding of life to bang her snatch. Even a 18 year old woman knows that much. Sex can be so much more when there is that connection. ... No, really you want some strange to knock out a few loads when you feel the need. My question is am I going about it all wrong? ... Yes. Does the word open make woman think I just want a quick no strings sex and move on? .... No... makes women think , "Why did this fool get married". Anyway, there's nothing wrong with nsa and moving on. Should I wait to mention I'm married? ... No, if you're going to tell them at all, that's what you start with......or don't even mention you're married, if you're going to hit-it-and-quit-it. Not wear my ring when I go out? ... No....Do wear your ring... this way you attract the right women. You seriously don't need any women who are all upset about you being married and on the prowl. These are questions that plague me. ... The question that should be plaguing you is, "What the fuck did I get married for". Actually you're lucky enough, because some guys on here are plagued by the question , why did I get the trans-op surgery. It doesn't grow back like a lizards tail. I also understand that not everyone is into that lifestyle. ... Oh it's not really a "Life style"..... it's more of a group of millions who didn't need to get married, and really should not have gotten married, in the first place. What do you think? ... I think you got married too young and now you're wishing you stayed single.
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