My nudist club
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Posted:Mar 5, 2012 1:49 pm
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Another one of my crazy ideas is a basic nudist club. Not a swingers club,just a nudist one. Instead of a coat check room have a clothes check room with lckers, and all anyone wears is the key to their locker around their neck.
We would havea dance room of course for people that want that. I also think having a small gym in the back for people that want to work out in their own skin is a good idea. There has to be a pool someplace too.
We have to have afantasy room too. Set up dressing rooms for people to hook up in, or a sex only room where people can go if they want. Noting forced or expected, just a place where you can get a booth and have fun if you want. I would also have a public sex room for the exhibitionists.
I am sure places like this already exist. Just one of thos ideas that I think would be fun to get up and running. If anyone out there has a ton of money and wants to finance the whole opperation let me know. Until then my lottery plan still isn't working out to great for me.
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New crazy idea
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Posted:Feb 28, 2012 2:32 pm
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I want to host a public orgy. This is likely to never happen because of general logistics, but it is fun to dream about.
The general idea is to go to a public park. Not sure where, but a real public park, after sundown. We get a group of people together and just strip down to have an orgy. If not out in the open, then where else? Eveyone can watch, anyone can join in, bring your own condoms.
Of course the logistic issues include where could we possibly ever get away with this, how could we ever keep minors out of it, general safety for all involved, and how to avoid being arrested. I'm sure there are other general issues involved that I am not thinking about off hand, but it is the general fantasy of the day.
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Hosting
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Posted:Feb 27, 2012 2:31 pm
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One of the biggest issues that I find in here when talkign to people is where do we met up and when. As I have mentioned before time is not my friend more often than not. Even when it is the where is normally a problem.
I know there are people out ther ethat can host and are more than willing to host, which is great. I am not one of those people. One, I can't have naked peopel in my house where my wife might find out about them. There is the simple reason. Two, lets be honest, we met on teh internet, we don't know each other, and I don't really want you to know where I live if you decide to go stalker on me.
So there comes the question of where to meet. Thus far I met one person in a parking lot and then we drove around to find someplace to have sex that was secluded, which is not an easy thing to do. The second and third guy I met with both invited me into their homes, which makes my life easier and I thank them for it. Both of these guys I talked to for a while before coming over though. I want to be comforatle before walking into someone's palce, and be somewhat reassured that this isn't being streamed online someplace or that I am going ot end up kidknapped in someone's basement (yes I am paranoid, why?).
A couple tha I met with (and am trying to find time to meet with again) actually met me at our local Romantix. We had planned for me to meet them at their house, but family stuff came up early in the day and I had to cancel. Once family stuff was resolved, I caught them online and they invited me to Romantix with them.
I had never been in the booths there before, and was at least curious as to what they had back there. I was surprised at how large the boths were. The doors locked, which I was happy for. I did notice someone stick their head under the wall a few times (there is a gap between the floor and the wall for some reason). It is a fun place to go and I did enjoy it.
Of course I am all for finding a secluded place outside where we can have some fun in private. This time of year though it is difficult to find someplace warm saddly. Of course I still have never had sex in a car yet, which is on my list of things to eventually do.
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Odd thing I have noticed
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Posted:Feb 24, 2012 2:30 pm
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I mentioned in a previous blog that I currently am dealing with some leg pain and haveto wear a brace for said pain. First of all I really hate knee braces. This one never stays in place and generally drives me up a wall. At work I go to teh rest room numerous times during the day to adjust the thing back into its proper place. A co-worker asked why I was running tothe bathroom so often and spending less than 30 secodns in there. I told her what I was doing and she asked why. I let her know that I didn't think it was overly professional to drop my pants in the office evry time the brace bunches up or slips down. She laughed.
The odd thing to me has been my doctor visits. I have a female doctor so that may be part of this, who knows. When I first saw her she asked me to roll my pant legs up over my kneee. I was wearing long underwearthat day (lets hear it for northern IN winters). I told her that there was no way to pull it up over my knee and I would haveto pull my pants down, which she was okay with. I had boxers on under my long underwear so there was nothing unusual in that.
Today for my follow up again she had me pull up my pant leg. I have a hard time getting my pants up over my knee in general but I did that instead of taking my pants off, though I thought it would make more sense as I wouldn't have the cuff of my pant leg cutting off circulation on my mid thigh. She orded an X-Ray for me and sent me to get that done.
The X-Ray Tech was also a female. She asked where the pain was and I pointed to it (Above my left knee, not the knee itself). The tech asked if I could pull my pant leg up to my upper theigh. I told her proabaly not that high and pointedto as far as it could comfortably go. In the X-Ray room, I tried pulling up my pant leg and at first it did not o up high enough. SHe insisted on one more inch. I told her that it would be easier to just take off my pants (again, I had underwear on). She said not to do that so I forced the pant leg up the extra inch and really cut into my leg doing so. This has not helped my sore leg at all really. But apparently I X-Ray well and the images have been sent to my doctor.
Here are my thoughts on this: my doctor, even though she is female, has seen naked men before. And with my having underwear on why not just take the pants off to see full range of motion unhindered by pants that are forced to be much too tight. I am guessing that the X-Ray tech might not see as many naked people as my doctor, but at the sametime why the aversion to taking off my pants to get into the right postions a little easier? It has nothing to do with modesty and everything to do with practicality in my opinion. I realize that other people may not be as willing to shed clothes in doctor's offices unless they have no other choice. I personally don't care as I just want to find out what is wrong and move on from there.
Of course I do wonder how many times both have been innapropriately flashed by patients, which could be part of it. There could be some policy I don't know about. Or maybe I am overthinkingthe entire thing, who knows.
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Is February over yet?
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Posted:Feb 23, 2012 2:21 pm
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I am tired. This month is continually beating me down and I am tired of it.
Work is growing to be more and more of a pain. The job itself isn't so bad, but as budget cuts abound, and everyone is trying to make themselves seem more useful to management, people are getting in the way of my job. I have people that have nothing to do with my job convincing management to be involved in what I do when I do not need their help. SO I am running behind schedule and have to document every step of the way why I am behind schedule thanks tothe "help" others are forcing onto me.
Next on the list of pains is the pain in my leg. Three weeks ago I was walking along and got a sharp pinch in my leg above the knee. The area then went numb and just tingled a little. I did not twist my leg, trip or anything unusual. I was just walking along the sidewalk when this happened. The pain goes from a numb/tingle to a sharp pain when I walk. I went to the doctor last week and was told I have a pocket of fluid where fluid should not be, and to wear a knee brace for a week and see if it gets better. A week has passed, it is not better, and I go back tomorrow. And I really hate the knee brace as it either bunches up or slides out of position non stop.
I want to get my taxes done, ut the federal government sold my student loans to another company, which the other company raised my monthly payment to have it paid off faster. I want to use the tax return to pay off the student loan, but I need my interest statment to claim that deduction on my taxes. Federal states they can't provide me the statement (but did quote me $65.15 spent in deductable interest) and the new company told me that they don't have records of what I paid last year to federal so thay can't send it to me either. I think I will just accept teh $65 loss and get the taxes done as I am sick of playing phone tag in customer service hell.
Hobby wise I collect action figures, and have been having issues with an online company that sells exclusive figures. They have a subscrition system to get the new ones every month, and my subscription has generally been messed up. So I spend too much time with customer service to find out nothing new.
I had one opportunity this month to go meet with a friend from this site yesterday. My wife was working late so I asked if he had time, and he said yes. I ran home after work, grabbed the lingere I bought wanting to show it off. Of course I also had this damned knee brace on and debated how best to handle it. Unfortuantely my friend got called into work early and could not meet last minute. So a quick fuck to just feel better didn't happen either.
On top of all else my wife keeps talking about how we will have sex tomorrow, and then never follows through. Something always comes up. On top of that, her hours have changed (again) and now I get almost no time to play in here. As she now decided she can stay up late as she only works for 5 hours in the afternoon, she keeps me up later when I have to get up early. Most days the caffeene keeps me going, but I am just getting used to less sleep.
On the bright side my cat still loves me. That may be all I have going for me this month.
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Obligation Day
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Posted:Feb 13, 2012 2:23 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 2:14 am
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I read a comic strip online the other day referring to Valentine's Day as Obligation day. This strip more or less summed up what I hate about the day. People are showing affection because they feel obligated to do so, and not because they actually feel like it.
My long standing argument against valentines day is simple. I don't need a special day on a calendar to do something special for the person I am with. Seriously, if you don't make that person feel special eery day, what exactly makes this day so special? A brithday celebrates survivng another year, an anniversery records another year togehter, but Valentines Day is just another excuse to go out and feel obligated to do something special. Why do we feel this obligation?
I know there will be people reading this that don't agree with me. My wife argues the point with me every year (and yes, she still gets flowers & chocolate, I'm not a total idiot). I just do not like the fact that on this day, which holds no real significance to me or my wife, I have to make a special effort because it is culturally relevant to do so.
My second argument as to why I dislike Valentine's day is that it isn't fair to everyone. If you are in a relationship, then kudos to you. If you are not in a relationship, prepare to have everyone else's happiness rubbed in your face. How hippocritical is it to hate Valentine's day when you are single, and then it becomes your favoirte holiday after you are with someone (and we all know thatperson who converted at some point). It is hard to be alone on this day when everyone around you is in a happy relationship. Why do we feel the need to show off to others how we are supposedly happy like a status symbol?
The only thing to really benefit from Obligation Day is the economy. For one day there are record flower and Chocolate sales. Greeting cards and chalk heart candies fly off shelves everywhere. Comercialism is king here. Love is just the excuse maipulated to make money for others (I'll do a similar rant on this around Christmas).
So for Obligation day this year I will work 12 hours, stop on the way home to pick up flowers for my wife, and then sit and watch TV with her. Last year we did have sex, but that was so she could prove the point that Valentine's Day had some redeeming value and not because she wanted to have sex. It cheapened the entire thing when she started to go on about how I couldn't complain as she proved how much fun the day could be, and that we had sex to prove the point.
I hope that others will ahve fun with their Obligation Day, just don't fool yourselves intot thinking that this one day represents the rest of the year in whatever relationship you have.
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Tired of being angry
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Posted:Feb 6, 2012 1:56 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 2:14 am
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I have heard people say that anger grows weaker with time. I do not think that is true. I thimk we just build up a tolerance to it over time.
Currently, my primary job is adding more stuff onto my workload. This is because they are letting go of more people again. A lot of people tell me I am lucky to still have a job, and I am, but when all of your friends that you have worked with for years are being forced out, that they are being treated unfairly by management on the way out, and you get to pick up all of their work because management really doesn't understand how it is done, you start to resent being the one left. On top of that you get this wierd survivor guilt thing that you kept a job and they lost theirs.
At my second job, everything got restructured so that my nice local chapter where I got on well with everyone is now powerless in the face of the almighty national management. My new official supervisor is in Indianapolis, and I really only talk to her subordinate through email. The emails always work out as "I need you to work on these days" to which I replay "I am already working my primary job those days" and the subordinate insisting that I am being difficult. They need weekend instructors, and instead of letting me teach on the weekend like I want, they won't give me hours unless I take time off of my other job. So that is pretty frustrating.
Add onto that the fact that my wife ignores everythign I say. She now works part time and acts like her 4 hour shift is much more grueling than my 10-12 hour days. When she has to work 4 hours on a Saturday you think someone asked her to take a bullet. I already pay all of the bills, and then she has the audacity to ask me for gas money after she went on a shopping spree and didn't think to fill her tank first. When I have to work on a Sunday, she schedules a friend of her from work to do a practice in home demonstartion for a product I have no interest in because it will impress her boss that we are willing to help with that. My time is worth nothing to her, so why not piss away another hour before I go to work so long as it makes her look good to the boss who takes advantage of her good nature.
And of course anything her part time, minimum wage job wants, they get with no complaint. The husband that works two jobs and pays for every blasted thing and gets ignored every time he tries to talk about any problems, or even just wants to vent about how angry and scared I am about my jobs, I am not given any consideration at all.
So I am constantly angry. I feel like I don't know how to be anything else some days. But I can't explode, no matter how much I want to. That would be my father's reaction and I am not him. So I take it all in, hoping to find some pressure valve someplace, but right now I take it all in. I know it isn't healthy, or even advisable, but I just don't have many other options.
What a mess I have become.
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Crazy Weather
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Posted:Jan 26, 2012 3:08 pm
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Lets be honest, who here expected thunderstorms and threats of tornadoes in January? To say that the weather feels a little off this year is becoming a normal observation in my life.
Why am I talking about the weather you ask. good question. It boils down to some weather related fantasies. One fantasy is to have sex in the middle of a full blown thunderstorm with high winds, near constant lightning where the sky is purple, and thunder to try and scream louder than. Not an unusual fantasy, I know.
This time of year brings up other ideas. Last week when we had all of the snow, I was debating stripping down and taking pics of my self outside in the snow. There was the worry about freezing some things, but I had some fun pic ideas.But as my camera is currently in a non working state, and my webcam stays woth the computer that didn't happen.
I also like the idea of building a snow fort/igloo, where with just a blanket on the ground myself and another person try to keep each other warm with only body heat. It is one of those odd things where I have heard the best way to stay warm is to press two nakedbodies toegther in on sleeping bag. I have the scientific curiosity to try it and the base desire to cuddle naked with someone else.
Then you have days like today where it is 30 degrees out and raining almost all day long. My current job has me driving all over town to various medical offices. Once the heat is going in the van I can't help but wonder some times what it would be like to have sex in the back seat while it is cold and raining. I doubt anyone would go and check the van in this kind of weather, and like the idea of just finding a busy parking lot and having some fun.
at this point otnight though, I am staying inside and keeping warm. When the weather outside is less than hospitable and I get the house to myself for a few hours I like to just strip down under a warm blanket near the heat vent and watch TV. I know, not overly exciting, but it is what it is some days.
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My game show
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Posted:Jan 20, 2012 2:25 pm
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I have an idea for a game show. Your contestant is a normal guy. He has to chose between two asses, both sticking out of a curtain. Whichever ass he choses he gets to fuck. One ass belongs to a girl, the other to a guy (I need to work out some technical details so that nothing gives away gender).
The guy choses an ass to fuck, and the audience knows who he has chosen but he doesn't. Part of the fun is the reveal when the guy choses the other guy to fuck. Part of his punishment is that he has to take his turn with the guy he just fucked (ideally with a someone that is not gay and never done anal before).
If the contestent picked the girl, his reward is that he just fucked the girl in the ass. Really, why give him anything else?
Of course the issue is how to show only a bare ass and nothing else. Maybe some skin tight latex that only has the ass cut out. Or I thought of having the two people on a bed with blankets covering all but their asses. I play around with the details every so often to think about how I could make this work.
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Rare day indeed
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Posted:Jan 16, 2012 1:59 pm
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Today was one of those few days where I did not have to go to work. Between my two jobs it is not uncommon for me to work Satuerday, and then Sunday instead of really having a day off I have to catch up on al of my household stuff, as well as household stuff at my grandparent's house and helping out my parents with anyting they need. Today is one of the paid holidays at work, and one of those few holidays where I am not neded to come in and cover for other people (the joys ofa 24/7 operation).
So most of my day was wasted. My wife works 4p-8p right now. So she sits around the house doing a lot of nothing all day. This is normal. I work 10-12 hour days, she works 4, and I still get the joy of cooking, cleaning, and handling whatever goes wrong at home. I still should go get the dishes done, but I feel like taking after her and being lazy today.
My highlights today have been playing the Will for about an hour when she took her nap (she neds her nap every day because she gets so tired). I had to watch all of teh daytime TV that she watches every day so most of my day feels wasted. Otherwise I have been painting model castles while time permitted today as I have a few projects to work on.
Right before she left for work my Mom stopped by, which instantly got me thinking that I was being roped into something. Mom just wanted to stop by and say hi though. My Wife instantly states taht I should go out to dinner with Mom. She acts like I can't take care of myself. After she elft mom let me know that I didn't have to go to dinner with her, which is code from my mom of "I wasn't planning on taking you out to dinner but I will if you want to go". I told mom that I had things I needed to get done at home.
As I logged into here I was hoping to find someoen to play with tonight (and the night is still young). I had one guy that I talk to alot (but have never met with) email me wanting to meet up, but he can't get here until later and I can't get away. Otherwise none of the people I normally talk to much are online, somewhat dissapointing. Right now I could use a good naked romp with someoen, but I doubt it will hapen at this rate.
The rest of this week will be my normal crazy with work, added onto the fact that I took today off meaning I have to fit 5 days of work into 4. Sharing an orgasm would have been a great start to the week, but fate seems to be working against me.
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I got it today
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Posted:Jan 10, 2012 3:34 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2015 3:12 pm
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I have mentioned before that I tried on lingere before. I think I also mentioned that recently I bought a chemise for myself. I got it today in the mail and had to try it on while I had the house to myself.
At first I had an issue trying to put the thing on. I didn't realize that a thong came with it and had to take that off. Then I tried putting the chemise on like a shirt, and couldn't figure out the straps at the top. I changed to putting it on like a pair of pants and then it all worked out fine. I put on the thong, which looked great on my ass, but was way to small for my cock, and my balls were hanging out the side. That got taken off quickly due to comfort and the fact it didn't look great in the front.
In the Chemise the front is not very impressive (due largely to the fact that I don't have boobs). But from the back I thought I looked pretty good. You will all have to let me know what you think.
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I am so far beyond pissed right now
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Posted:Jan 6, 2012 4:32 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2015 3:12 pm
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I have to get this out of my system.
My wife's car died before Christmas. This has now been a few weeks of craziness sharing a car where she gets my car at her whim, and I have to borrow a car from work to get home.
Her mother (who hates me) offered to buy her a car. I know this is somthing that she will hold over my head claiming that I don't make enough money and insult me in general as always. So I nixed that idea. My wife then worked it out that her mom would loan her the money for a new car, which I am not fond of either for mostly the same reasons, but I got ignored that time.
I told my wife to look at a care in the 2-3 grand range as that is something I could get paid off in under a year. She starts looking at cars that are 10-12 grand online. I told her 3 times this week to look for somethign under 5 grand.
My wife called me at work today to let me know that she got a car for 17 grand, and that her mom isn't happy with her as her mom wanted to keep it under 15 grand. SO now we have to come up with 2 grand to give her parents sooner than expected.
I work two jobs, pay every bill we have, and she decided to buy a 17 thousand dollar car without letting me see it first, test drive it, or even haggle with the dealership any.
So yeah, I'm pissed.
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Attack of the Random
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Posted:Jan 2, 2012 11:03 am
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I feel the need to write something, but don't really have a direction in which to write, so I am just going to sum up the past week or so of stuff.
As I posted earlier I have crossdressed before and was debating getting a piece of lingere to just play with for the hell of it. Not a reular thing for me at all, but something that is the random fantasy on occasion. I looked at what A&E had online and found something that I thought would look good on me. Before ordering it I thought about trying on some of my wife's stuff while she was at work, but her closet is such an organized mess I didn't want to touch anything without being noticed. SO I broke down and orded a chemise for myself. Once I get it I will likely take some pics and post them in here (watch the blog for later updates). I also bought myself a new toy to play with too (will take requests for pictures, post if you are interested).
I went out of town for a few days to visit with some friends for the annual new years party. My wife had to work and could not come along. SHe told me that I could do anything I wanted while down visiting after I joked about going to a strip club wth one friend. I asked if that included any girls I met. She got serious real fast and told me that if I did anything she was to never find out about it. I told that to some friends, most of whom laughed. One person that I wanted to talk to about it was not at the party long enugh for me to ask if she was willing to play around with me. We have talked before about sex even though I am married. I figured if anyone would play along it was her, but I just couldn't find the time to talk to her before she left the party early.
Otherwise I have been talking to some new people in chat. I have a few guys that are interested in meeting up with me to be with a guy for the first time, which is not so odd for me in chat. I don't meet up with people often,and when I do it is after a lot of chat and getting to know a person. But two guys I talked to wanted to be with a guy, and both were going to talk to their wives about it. Makes me wonder how other people have a mature understanding about sex and experimantation, and are comfortable exploring in a relationship, and my wife acts like she is in Mayberry. Then again she did just essentially tell me that it is okay for me to have sex so long as she knows nothing about it.
So to sum up I had a fun week of vacation, but other then some camming in here at night not too much fun.
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