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Starting a relationship.   4/28/2005

Do NOT use "u" to mean "you." Do NOT use "4" to mean "for." <br> When I see those two -- and some others I can't remember because I'm so angry -- I feel the girl is about 12 and/or not very bright. <br> Please, girls, use words. The right words. Check your spelling. I see lots of complaints about how men write like they're stupid -- and the women do not recognize that ...


5 Comments, 157 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
onestickatatime 62 M
1  Article
Pictures   4/24/2005

I have a note for the guys out there looking for a long term relationship. If a woman doesn't have a photo you can save alot of time by passing up the profile. They are not stable or happy with the way they look. If you do decide to check them out they might give you a photo of when they were a bit happier with themselves, but rest assured they are not at all like the photo they will send ...


0 Comments, 168 Views, 12 Votes ,1.56 Score
It is all about TRUST!   4/22/2005

The base for a strong relationship is "Trust". If you trust each other, there will be no jealousy or doubt in either of your minds. <br> Remember trust is only the base, caring, consideration, love, goodwill, and commitment are needed to sustain a relationship.


1 Comments, 67 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
867LOVE2206 45 M
10  Articles
Reality & Relationships   4/21/2005

listen, I dont believe in anything relative to "the perfect relationship". Men are never satisfied with that woman that go the extra mile for them. They only realise the sweetness of their cherry after its gone. Women are the same, they tend to not see that they have a good man. They just keep looking at the other girls DIC. Females you too need to realise that men only look better in the ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
BigBlkKing4u 50 M
1  Article
Being 100% honest about what you want   4/20/2005

Relationships seem hard many times becuase we are not blunt and to the point about what we really want. It is true that compromise is necessary to develop a relationship, BUT you have to at least know what those things are that you need to compromise about. <br> I have seen from personal experience what happens when you hide away dreams, desires and wants that you have in your ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
what is safe sex really...???   4/20/2005

As we go down the road today we hear all types of people say...that they are really D/D free...is that a part of safe sex...??? Condoms are the only way to have safe sex..or unless you let your partner give you massage relief..but really what is safe sex...In one persons eyes its one thing but to another it is something different..Well to all..have safe sex...keep it clean...


1 Comments, 86 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
Relationship not SEX   4/19/2005

All over the world most people are interested in entering into a relationship because of sex, but it goes way beyoung sex.I shall use my self as an example, i met this handsome guy last two years and i really liked him we stated from friends and then one night i was sitting in front of my house which is his house as well becuase his brother came to rent an partment there.so as i was saying, ...


1 Comments, 241 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
lb2be 40 M
2  Articles
Friendship is the Key   4/17/2005

I may be have just become a full-fledged man, at the age of 21 and three-quarters, but there is certainly one thing that I've learned about relationships. Unless it is founded on a friendship, it is doomed for failure. I have been privileged to have a significant other for three years and I know that if the small things between us weren't there, we would no longer be together. Think ...


0 Comments, 154 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
My hubby masturbates   4/14/2005

I have a big problem. I got married recently some months ago and mine was a love marriage. The problem now is that every night my husband watches television (channels like FTV) and masturbates. I know all this as I pretend to be asleep and let him do what he wants but inside of me I really feel worthless. And then when I wanna have sex with him than most of the times he declines and ...


6 Comments, 684 Views, 24 Votes ,4.04 Score
cal_man78 63 M
4  Articles
What to do???   4/12/2005

I met this lady on this site, we chatted on messengers, and phone for about 2months, she is getting ready to take some college courses to get her nursing license, she new I had room in my place and I offered it to her since her classes were going to be in my town. One of the first rules of this business (lol...) adventure was there were to be no sex, no personal relationship, since she will ...


2 Comments, 384 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
rm_sidedish4u2 51 M
2  Articles
Dont give 100% you will loose yourself and your other half (pt2)   4/6/2005

Part 2 --The 80% giver-- Well by now I'm sure you know that I'm a lil off the deep end. Especially that I'm writing this article as a married man seeking fullfilment.. because nobody's perfect, remember. I came to a harsh realization that I wasn't going to find anyone to return unconditional love as I would want to receive it. Because every time I gave 100% they expected more and more ...


1 Comments, 154 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
FreeAgain21 60 F
8  Articles
Being Bi-sexual   4/2/2005

I am bi-sexual and have had alot of problems establishing a lasting relationship with either male or female. I am always upfront about my sexuality from the start of any relationship. My partners tell me they have no problem with the fact that I am bi-sexual, and love to have sex. Yet, there always comes a time when my sexuality is thrown in my face. (Usually with me being accused of ...


3 Comments, 185 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
dont ever stop building   4/2/2005

2 years ago after umpteen years of marriage me and my husband decided to finally split. I wont go into detail but the once happy relationship was dead and had been for a while. For the childrens sake we wanted to part on good terms, after just one week it became clear we couldn't be apart, we started dating again and fell in love all over again, last year on our 14th wedding anniversary we ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
Creativesoulsin1 47,1946 C
10  Articles
Trust while trisiting in a relationship   3/31/2005

Tristing~ Do you know what that is? You know its when you play in AdultFriendFinder land~ that is you are here to get hooked up with others of like mind. The one thing that you truly need in order to make things work while having fun here and being in a relationship is to trust each other. That is work at communication and what you want. Set the boundries that will set you and your ...


1 Comments, 197 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
So the wedding is approaching...   3/28/2005

So yeah the wedding is approaching now at an increadible speed and I am getting a little cold in the feet thinking what sex is going to be like after we have tied the knot. I know i have heard over and over that the sex just gets beter, thats all good, I'm worried about the frequency. We do it now like once every 2 weeks and the wedding is a month away and I'm not feeling so good about ...


2 Comments, 63 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
wifey3223 55 F
20  Articles
TRYING,to know alot of AdultFriendFinder,members,get noticed more.   3/28/2005

Hello, once again, everyone or some did not understand my holler article, caps comments.someone comented , people were gonna complain about caps .Did , they mean letters (I HEARD BIG LETTERS MEAN YOURE SCREAMING).thats not my intention, i just write in any casing.i thought, in chat rooms he meant was.i cursing him .lolsome of you, indent more, i will learn better soon..... alot of men just ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Like a mile race...   3/26/2005

You don't want to start out sprinting off the line and give everything you have at the beginning only to be exhausted after the first quarter-mile with nothing left to give nor do you want to start off too slow to let everyone take such a lead you can't catch up and win in the end. Many of our friends have made this mistake and lost the other party over and over again from making this ...


0 Comments, 160 Views, 21 Votes ,4.24 Score
devi_ous 42,1937 C
4  Articles
what does it take?   3/23/2005

i want to know what compromises evry one has to take to make a relationship work?


4 Comments, 120 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_RavenBeauty5 56 C
5  Articles
Communication is important   3/23/2005

Communication between the two of us began in a chatroom. I had met her online four years ago and we are engaged to be married this June. We have been through our ups and downs as a couple, but what brought us through was our communication. What made it hard for us was we had to unlearn all the bad of our past relationships and build a new one with each other. We had our share of ...


1 Comments, 108 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
The first, and most important, step in building a relationship   3/22/2005

Well, folks. Its obvious that you cannot build a real relationship without meeting someone and talking to them. Unfortunately, it seems that this is where most men and women have a problem. Overcoming the initial fear of approaching someone new, especially someone that you are attracted to, can be ridiculously hard. Lets face it, it can be intimidating as hell. It has been my ...


1 Comments, 112 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
FLLover4U269 47 M
1  Article
Bi-Sexual Trists...Can They Work?   3/19/2005

Bi-Sexuality has always been a major item of interest to me for several years now. Out of all the various sexual deviations, bi-sexuality has to be the most scorned of all. <br> It is the only sexual deviation of the norm that pits homophobs and homosexuals on the same side 99.9% of the time. <br> Although science tends to say that homosexuality and bi-sexuality are ...


0 Comments, 135 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
drive bye profile check   3/18/2005

this is for women to be discreet and check out the who`s interested in them .have the man stand on a street corner at a curtain time. and drive bye and check it out. and keep it all a seceret.


1 Comments, 198 Views, 10 Votes ,1.00 Score
FunFriendsXX 56 M
4  Articles
It make it better   3/16/2005

Hey friends have more fun and are better relationship.


1 Comments, 133 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
tigers20022 56,2013 C
2  Articles
why is that   3/15/2005

why is it on AdultFriendFinder that you build up a good relationship (or you think so)and then when the topic of meeting up comes up the other party seems to get cold feet. im not say they should jump straight into bed or anything but they should meet up as even if the bed sene or what ever you want dos'ent come off good friendship could happen. so please people give it a go, you might just enjoy it.


9 Comments, 330 Views, 26 Votes ,4.00 Score
To Rebuild, or Not to Rebuild   3/12/2005

There is an ongoing group discussion called "What about guilt?" that is addressing how to deal with the guilt associated with having an affair. The consensus was, "if the guilt out weighs the positive experience, then don't do it. But, don't forget to factor into the equation the result of getting caught. It could make the guilt feel like nothing by comparison". Then, the posts took a ...


1 Comments, 265 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
seeker_o_passion 50 F
2  Articles
Travel or not to travel?   3/11/2005

Having spent the last two weeks travelling all over Michigan meeting people from this site, all I can say is - whew. After driving sometimes hours, just to meet someone, then in the case of one gentleman, having them fall asleep on you, a little disappointing. Then incorporate the cost of gas, and possible bodily injury due to maybe falling asleep at the wheel, (almost happened to me last ...


3 Comments, 330 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
deadcoad 46 M
2  Articles
Aunty in my next door   3/11/2005

When I look out at a Married woman next door she is exposing her brests too much.Is it a sexual invitation for me? Plaese advice.


2 Comments, 492 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
Tips on wining the dating dating game.   3/10/2005

Doesn’t it seem odd that there are so many frustrated surfers wiping out at meeting, dating or whatever it is you are looking for on personal web sites? Ok, I know you have to put a solid effort to achieve results and doing things that grab attention. But did you ever consider that people are afraid of failure or some misfortune? Or is it that people are so picky, they blow by a ...


2 Comments, 1942 Views, 122 Votes ,4.55 Score
College   3/10/2005

Several years ago when I was in college. I was having a few afternoon beers with a buddy of mine in a bar when we ran into this girl who my buddy really wanted to, for lack of a better word, screw. My buddy had a few weeks before fallen down some stairs while drunk and had torn his Achilles Tendon. He was on crutches and a bit incapacitated.


1 Comments, 547 Views, 11 Votes
seaskorpio 52 M
1  Article
WHY?   3/9/2005

WHY THE WOMANS OR MEN , AFTER ACCEPT THE INVITE IN NETWORK NOT ANSEWR MORE OR NOT GIVE THE INFORMATION FOR CONTACT AND START THE FRIENDSHIP THAT ALL HOPEFULL? IF ACCEPT IS FOR SERIOUS MATTER? OR IT S ONLY FOR HAVE THE PICTURE IN THE NETWORK AND SHOW AND OTHE FRIEND?


7 Comments, 640 Views, 14 Votes ,1.22 Score