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Meeting people 3/4/2005
I thought meeting people here would be easy , but its still
the real world . I no the people i do eventually meet will
be friends of mine . , and the memories will last a life time.
2 Comments, 460 Views,
8 Votes
,1.86 Score
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Getting back together with ex-gf 2/26/2005
My gf and I broke up 8 months ago, and I havent been able to
think of anyone else except her.
We both knew that we loved eachother, but figured that the
time wasnt right yet.
We still keep in touch since we both live close to eachother
and go to the same university.
Recently shes been seein a new guy but I can tell she isnt
that happy with him.
We havent talked about getting back ...
4 Comments, 233 Views,
15 Votes
,2.67 Score
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Is you realationship great or bad and single men and women should take NOTE! 2/24/2005
Have you ever wondered if yours is really that great? Have
you wondered how great your man or women is really in bed?
Have you figured out why your jealous if your the jealous
type.
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Well I can personally tell you I used to be jealous about
8 years ago , my name is Greg , It is the feeling of someone
being better than you and pleasing your mate better than
you can or the ...
1 Comments, 208 Views,
21 Votes
,3.25 Score
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The first kiss 2/22/2005
If you were on a first date and the woman you were with turned
out to be a bad kisser, would it be shallow to end it right
there?
5 Comments, 270 Views,
16 Votes
,3.57 Score
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Too fast? 2/21/2005
What is to fast to let an un-suspecting partner know your
ambitions sexually? Like, say, the ambitions we all put
on Hotmatch and the reason we are all members on Hotmatch.
Now , i know this is really a hypothetical question, but
say you have just met that mr. or mrs or miss right, when do
you let them know you want more in your sexual relationship
then they alone are going to be able to ...
1 Comments, 260 Views,
27 Votes
,2.71 Score
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It takes work 2/21/2005
That is the bottom line. So many people seem to have the opinion
that ok ive found someone now its easy street from here.
That is not the case. A true relationship takes tons of work
and committment. Thru the good and the bad. Compromise
is hard but you both do it. If you are not willing to realize
in the beginning that finding someone is really the easy
part and that the so called ...
7 Comments, 2973 Views,
358 Votes
,6.12 Score
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Pet Names 2/20/2005
To men & women who think it's okay to use pet names
with someone you just meet...think again. Being single
& not in any relationship at the moment, I don't
care for a women to call me:
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Darling
Sweetie
Honey
Hun
Babe
etc...
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For the most part, I may have just started talking to you
& don't know you nor do you know me. The same goes
for men who do the ...
14 Comments, 323 Views,
17 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Why are Most of these men on this site EITHER FIREMAN...COPS..OR MILITARY??? 2/17/2005
Why are Most of these men on this site EITHER FIREMAN...COPS..OR
MILITARY?? Its it that You all have to much time on your hands???
he..he...
4 Comments, 206 Views,
12 Votes
,0.50 Score
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a "dating" website? 2/15/2005
I must ask a question..........why is it that the website
specifically states "sex and swinger " and
people are using it as a "dating" site.......stating
on the profile..."no married men".........just
curious.........
6 Comments, 446 Views,
10 Votes
,1.59 Score
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Trust 2/12/2005
There can be no greater good then trust. Without it there
is no foundation for friendship, let alone a relationship.
Sure there may be lust, but is that enought? Without something
as fundamental as trust to fall back on there can be no self
reliance, no ability to carry on safe in the knowledge that
'at least i am the one' (at least in someone's
eyes). Without trust are we doomed to an ...
0 Comments, 74 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Should a little "Fib"; be construed as a "lie" in a relationship??/ 2/12/2005
My girlfriend and I were watching TV, when the phone rank.
Not looking at the caller ID, I answered the phone instead
of letting it go to voice mail. On the other end was a lady
friend of mine, who is JUST a friend and nothing more.....She
called just to tease me about who was playing football on
TV at the time. I kept the conversation short and hung up,
going back to sit down with ...
5 Comments, 245 Views,
12 Votes
,3.15 Score
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build 2/11/2005
Well I bielieve that you must work together on everything.It`s
fifty fifty when you are with someone.Buil it first on companionship
then move to sex and life in genral.Treat your women like
a princess everyday .And then true love might find you
0 Comments, 40 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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The Older The Better? 2/10/2005
I see and hear people say rather often that older men or women
make better lovers or partners. I think it is true in very
few ways meaning it is mostly wrong.
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The primary reason that older men or women might make better
lovers is not actually based off experience it is based
off knowledge. Lot's of younger guys are fast and furious,
and do not slow down ...
2 Comments, 153 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score
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How do you maintain a relationship once it has started? 2/7/2005
Having grown up with a father in the military and moving
all over the world with him I don't know how to maintain
a long term relationship. I've married twice and both
times for the wrong reasons, now I'm single again.
I've met my soulmate but have said some things that
have hurt her deeply and she has withdrawn from me. We are
still friends and working on rebuilding the relationship.
We ...
4 Comments, 166 Views,
17 Votes
,3.41 Score
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Truth in advertising...... 2/4/2005
I have been on AdultFriendFinder for a while. Met two nice people who were
liars in the end. why is honesty so difficult in this forum.
Say what you want, want what you ask for......is all I am
looking for.....any advice for me?
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Thanks.
4 Comments, 202 Views,
12 Votes
,3.15 Score
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What are you looking for 2/2/2005
Now let's be serious about this. This is a sex and swinger
personals site. So what are you looking for? If it is a long-term
relationship then just how much does sex factor into it?
What would you expect from advertising on this site? I've
seen some profiles from women that seemed real nice. But
are they really, I would honestly have to give them the benefit
of the doubt. Honesty is ...
4 Comments, 141 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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am i just a little impatient. 2/2/2005
i thought i joined this site to get sex from local women, not
think about it. yes some women have responded, but the
responses are like"maybe in a few weeks", instead
of "how about tonight".should I just wait until
they are completely ready? how long should i wait?
3 Comments, 214 Views,
15 Votes
,1.75 Score
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Just Curious 1/29/2005
How many people can honestly say they have met someone on
this site that was not full of shit and a meaningful relationship
came of your date/meeting? I’m just curious to know.
8 Comments, 684 Views,
28 Votes
,4.16 Score
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The ex 1/28/2005
i've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months and
it's great. before me however he dated a girl for 5 years.
the other night when we were having sex he called me her name.
they never had sex but they were intimate. he told me that
he didn't love her and that he loved me but it made me
wonder. what should i do?
6 Comments, 273 Views,
19 Votes
,2.99 Score
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respect of a woman 1/28/2005
"Be very careful if you make a woman
cry, because God counts her tears. The woman
came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be
walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but
from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be
protected, and next to the heart to be loved."
1 Comments, 294 Views,
38 Votes
,6.56 Score
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Truth in adversiting 1/26/2005
I have spent many months getting to know two different women.
Both turned out to be other than what they said. One was 300lbs
plus ( said she had a "few x-tra pounds") and
the other revealed at the last minute that she had an STD
after saying she was clean. What EXACTLY does a man have
to say to get a woman to be truthful?
2 Comments, 348 Views,
15 Votes
,5.73 Score
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For Ladies Only: Annihilate Male Liar's Quickly 1/24/2005
OK OK, I’ve been a bit rough the last couple of days, going
way out of my way to make trouble for you.
I’m sorry ladies.
I’m going to attempt to make it up to you now, by suggesting
some strategies to weed out males liar’s quickly, so you
don’t waste your precious time with them.
First, let’s pull the curtain back, and have a peek at the
core ...
2 Comments, 403 Views,
21 Votes
,1.27 Score
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Will this help? 1/23/2005
My boyfriend and I are starting a new sex life. We are looking
for bi females or couples..My question is is this gonna
make us stonger or tear us apart?
7 Comments, 265 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Honesty 1/21/2005
Honesty, that's what most people start off with, when
describing what they are looking for in a relationship.
However, I have found very little honesty on this or any
site.
Let's start with physical attributes. Unless health
class has changed dramatically in the past few years. If
you weigh more than 20 pounds above your height ratio, then
you have a couple extra pounds. This does not ...
2 Comments, 315 Views,
22 Votes
,3.73 Score
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Taking On The Ladies: Strategies in Fighting Back #1 1/20/2005
I’m feeling frisky tonight, after getting my ass kicked
in my BDSM fantasy. So it’s time to go after the ladies, again.
I’m going to reveal a strategy that I utilize with my wife,
in an effort to undermine her gurilla war against me. I call
it my Contrary Strategy. Basically it works like this.
This is most effective when used regarding completely
inconsequential ...
2 Comments, 406 Views,
14 Votes
,2.66 Score
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How Women Use Dishwashers to Undermine Men 1/18/2005
Being that my Inbox is almost always empty, today I feel
like causing some trouble. Sorry ladies, I know it’s not
your fault. I suppose my eyes would glaze over, too, if I
had as many emails as I think you’re getting. Nonetheless,
I’m going to reveal a truth about one of the thousands of
ways women engage men in a never-ending battle of subterfuge
and attrition- designed to undermine ...
4 Comments, 371 Views,
29 Votes
,5.65 Score
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How to get the sex without offending her 1/18/2005
I have found out, as a college student, that if you build
a strong foundation with a female she will stick around.
I simply explained to her that Im in college and at the moment
don't see myself getting with anyone else but will
not be exclusive to her. This has led to great sex and a lot
of sexual favors
1 Comments, 5463 Views,
172 Votes
,1.09 Score
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Strong Foundation in a relationship 1/18/2005
I find the best way to build a relationship is through a common
background. I see two people coming from the same background
with the same moral values as going a lot further than a couple
that has little in common. This is usually the foundation
of a relationship and it keeps one another interested.
A better foundation in a relationship can usually lead
to better sex.
0 Comments, 482 Views,
19 Votes
,2.33 Score
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Strong Foundation in a relationship 1/18/2005
I find the best way to build a relationship is through a common
background. I see two people coming from the same background
with the same moral values as going a lot further than a couple
that has little in common. This is usually the foundation
of a relationship and it keeps one another interested.
A better foundation in a relationship can usually lead
to better sex.
6 Comments, 2295 Views,
282 Votes
,4.09 Score
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look in the mirror 1/16/2005
To build a true and strong relationship, just stand in front
of the mirror and examine what it is you want from it. Ask
yourself the tough questions and examine just how much
of yourself you are willing to give away to the relationship.
Anything less that true and utter honesty is doing neither
of you any good.
2 Comments, 610 Views,
91 Votes
,4.23 Score
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