i am not your typical stereotypical submissive, i am assertive, humorous, loud, etc. i will fold my body low to those i respect as Dominate however i will happily call out the trolls in my own true intelligent wit. i have been active in the lifestyle for well over two decades now and have grown leaps and bounds since i started back in 1996. i have enjoyed bowing before great individuals and offering myself to Them. I am a great listener and friend. I believe our mistakes and roads traveled have been traveled for a rea. With each choice we learn and grow. There is no wrong path taken only less well learned or discarded. If you take the time to listen to yourself and others you will see the worlds mistakes are the back bone of our learning curves. i allow myself time to learn and take everything slowly in order to completely benefit from the information. Without a good head on your shoulders there is no hope in truly understanding what you want or what you crave. Through trial and error we grow, through sadness and happiness we learn what helps and what we like, but to look for tomorrows without understanding todays is like walking blindly into a bad situation. Within this lifestyle we are individuals with many kinks, desires, needs and peral traits. Weather it is an emotional companion or physical need to please or be pleased we all search and crave something. Perally i feel those who use this as a way to bring gratification into to their sex life and stop there will never benefit with what this lifestyle has to offer. But if you open your mind as well as your body you will find another life of existence is out there and be amazed by where your desires could and will take you. The lack of experience and ignorance in knowledge is only a lack not a deterrent to yield however open possibilities to what can be and will be. Remember everyone starts with a step before jumping into this world so take your time patience is the only way to watch each other grow and to find something special is to wait for not perfection but for the right in our wrong. My Ideal Per The individual qualities i look for are vast and hard to put into a little paragraph on a page. We are all complex and many of us walk through life never truly knowing what we want or need. i currently have a Dom who cares for me a great deal through life's choices we are together. We have worked hard to get to this point and with trial and error i hope to move on. We are in an open poly relationship. Due to current circumstances he is unable to continue several of my kink interests so I'm seeking others who are interested to fill this void. i am not a door mat however i am a book. Each previous page writes and paints a picture of what i have been through and the current pages speak of what i have learned but the pages to come are yet to be written and it is there i hope for greatness and passion to become the climax of my later years.

My Ideal Person I like a playful assertive male. Someone who can take charge and enjoys a curvy women.

If you know what you want and tease me to submit PERFECT!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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